Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

ADHD and the Drama Trap: Breaking Free

Discover how ADHD impacts relationships through drama-seeking behaviors. Learn strategies to break the cycle and build healthier, more stable partnerships.

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Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

Why I Walk

Why do I go on walks? Meditation, introspection, rumination, lots of "-ations".

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Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

A Guide to Understanding Your Friends with ADHD

I joke that everyone should come with a user manual. I have ADHD, and I believe that if I had a guidebook for friends, dates, and partners, this could be a chunk of it. It would make life easier, wouldn’t it?

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Brain Food

Expanding on my previous post, mostly from the perspective of the food we eat. This is a long post because there are a lot of related concepts. It discusses allergies, illness, candida and the food we eat.

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Your Body Has Two Brains

In which I talk about the "second brain", neurotransmitters, mood and food, and share some cool facts about the gut microbiome. Also, I make a reference to a movie from 1989.

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The first panic attack I remember

I was in grade 7 (“7th grade”) shop class. The teacher was explaining how to make a spice rack. I tuned out, likely daydreaming. In those days, no one knew about ADHD. The memory of that kid’s mocking haunted me for years.

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Allowing Feelings

When we “empathize” by relating our own stories, we make it about us. It’s not always intentional, but it’s a risk. Thoughts inspired by the book The Gift by Edith Egar.

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ADHD and Overwhelm

What is overwhelm and what can someone with ADHD - or someone without - do about it? I've got 10 ways to deal with overwhelm.

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